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President Donald Trump has increasingly demanded public expressions of gratitude from foreign leaders, particularly allies like Ukraine’s President Volodymyr Zelensky, reshaping U.S. diplomacy into a transactional and performative exercise centered on personal recognition.
In a recent phone call with Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky, President Donald Trump received repeated public acknowledgments of thanks, which the White House emphasized heavily in its official statements. This episode exemplifies a pattern in Trump’s diplomacy, where he expects public and personal gratitude from foreign leaders, especially allies who rely on U.S. support. The approach diverges sharply from traditional diplomatic norms that prioritize mutual strategic interests and discretion.
This dynamic was especially evident during an Oval Office meeting with Zelensky, where Vice President JD Vance reprimanded him for insufficient gratitude, and Trump concluded by labeling the Ukrainian leader as unthankful. The contrast with Trump’s more cordial and gratitude-free interaction with Russian President Vladimir Putin highlights his inconsistent expectations based on perceived loyalty and deference.
While presidents have previously expressed frustration with allies privately, Trump’s method involves public displays of appreciation as a litmus test for continued support. Administration officials, such as spokesman Harrison Fields, have defended this as an appropriate exchange for American military and financial assistance. This has had a noticeable effect on international behavior, with leaders like NATO Secretary General Mark Rutte and Ireland’s prime minister adjusting their public messaging to flatter Trump.
Members of Trump’s administration have followed suit. Secretary of State Marco Rubio criticized Poland’s foreign minister online for a lack of gratitude over technology aid, reinforcing the expectation that U.S. assistance must be reciprocated with praise. Critics, including policy experts like Michael Froman, Kori Schake, and Matt Duss, argue that this approach reduces alliances to subordination and liken it to a “protection racket,” fundamentally altering the values underpinning U.S. foreign relations.
Trump’s approach represents a marked shift in American diplomacy, elevating performative loyalty and personal acknowledgment above policy-driven or strategic cooperation, with implications for how both allies and adversaries engage with the United States.
Green, Erica L. “How Trump Insists on Thanks From Zelensky and Other Foreign Leaders.” The New York Times, 23 Mar. 2025, www.nytimes.com/2025/03/23/us/politics/trump-zelensky-foreign-diplomacy.html.
Key takeaways:
- Trump expects overt public gratitude from allies as part of diplomatic engagement.
- His style departs from norms of mutual interest and behind-the-scenes diplomacy.
- Zelensky was directly confronted about a perceived lack of appreciation.
- Trump treats international support as a personal favor rather than a strategic policy.
- Foreign leaders and U.S. officials are adapting to this gratitude-based diplomacy.
- Critics argue the approach undermines traditional alliances and fosters a dominance-based model.
Most important quotations:
- “You’re not acting at all thankful. And that’s not a nice thing.” – Donald Trump to Zelensky
- “That does sort of signal a fundamentally different notion of order than we have had for the last 80 years.” – Michael Froman
- “Every U.S. president should demand that from both allies and adversaries.” – Harrison Fields
- “What this signals is that in a strictly transactional global order, if you humble yourself in front of the American president, you can get what you want.” – Kori Schake
- “If you want protection, you have to show respect to the boss, and you’ve got to pay upstairs.” – Matt Duss
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